The Meeting You’re Not Really In

You know the feeling. It is 10:30 AM in Bangalore. Your camera is off. Your microphone is muted. Your boss is explaining something about quarterly targets, and you are staring at your own reflection in the dark screen, realizing you have no idea what he just said. You are present. You are also gone.
This is not laziness. This is not a lack of discipline. According to a 2025 review by Thomas Marchlewski and Detlef Fetchenhauer in Advances in Consumer Research, this is a documented psychological phenomenon called employee withdrawal behavior. And in India, where remote work exploded faster than almost anywhere else on Earth, the withdrawal is not just happening. It is reshaping how people experience their jobs, their teams, and their own sense of professional identity.
The paper, which synthesizes findings from studies conducted after the Covid 19 lockdowns, argues that Indian employees are uniquely vulnerable to a specific kind of psychological withdrawal. Not the dramatic quitting. Not the loud complaint. Something quieter. Something that happens in the space between two Slack messages.
Why Indian Workers Were Primed to Disconnect

Here is what surprised me. The authors found that the problem is not remote work itself. It is the collision between remote work and the specific social architecture of Indian workplaces.
Indian offices, pre pandemic, ran on proximity. Decisions happened in corridors. Feedback came during chai breaks. Trust was built by seeing someone show up early and leave late. Marchlewski and Fetchenhauer (2025) describe this as a high context, high presence culture. Your presence in the room was not just about getting work done. It was a signal of commitment, loyalty, and belonging.
When that room disappeared, the signal went dead.
The authors argue that Indian employees did not just lose a commute. They lost the entire social infrastructure that made work feel meaningful. The result is a psychological withdrawal that looks like disengagement but is actually something more specific: a collapse of the feedback loop between effort and recognition. You work. Nobody sees you work. You stop feeling like your work matters. You withdraw.
The Three Ways Indian Employees Quietly Leave

The paper breaks withdrawal into three categories. Each one maps onto a specific behavior that managers might mistake for normal remote work friction.
Behavioral Withdrawal: The Disappearing Act
This is the most visible form. The employee stops volunteering for projects. They stop asking questions in meetings. They reply to emails with one word. They do not quit. They just stop showing up in the ways that matter.
Marchlewski and Fetchenhauer (2025) note that behavioral withdrawal in Indian remote workers is often misread by managers as "being busy." But the data tells a different story. The authors cite studies showing that behavioral withdrawal correlates strongly with a drop in organizational citizenship behavior. That is the extra stuff. The thing you do because you care, not because your job description says so.
Cognitive Withdrawal: The Body Is Here, the Brain Is Not
This is the one that is harder to catch. The employee is logged in. They are responding to messages. But their attention is fractured. They are scrolling. They are multitasking. They are doing the minimum to avoid being flagged as absent.
The authors describe cognitive withdrawal as a kind of mental absenteeism. The employee is physically present in the digital workspace but psychologically elsewhere. In Indian context, this is particularly dangerous because Indian work culture historically relied on implicit expectations. You were supposed to know what needed to be done. When cognitive withdrawal sets in, that implicit knowledge stops flowing. The employee does the task. They do not see the context.
Emotional Withdrawal: The Wall Goes Up
This is the deepest layer. The employee stops caring about the team. They stop defending the company in conversations. They feel no pride when a project succeeds and no shame when it fails.
Marchlewski and Fetchenhauer (2025) found that emotional withdrawal is the strongest predictor of actual turnover. But here is the twist. In Indian remote workers, emotional withdrawal often precedes behavioral withdrawal. The employee checks out emotionally first. The behavioral signs come months later.
What the Data Actually Shows
The paper is a review, not a single experiment. But it synthesizes findings from multiple studies conducted across Indian IT firms, business process outsourcing companies, and manufacturing firms that shifted to remote work during the pandemic.
One consistent finding: Indian employees working remotely report significantly higher levels of psychological withdrawal compared to their counterparts in hybrid or in person settings. The effect is strongest among employees who had less than two years of tenure before the pandemic. These workers never built the in person relationships that could sustain them through remote isolation.
Another finding that stopped me: The withdrawal is not evenly distributed. Women, particularly women with caregiving responsibilities, reported higher rates of cognitive and emotional withdrawal. The authors suggest this is because remote work did not eliminate the double shift. It just moved both shifts into the same building.
The Paradox of Productivity
Here is where the story gets complicated. Many Indian companies saw productivity hold steady or even increase during the first year of remote work. Employees worked longer hours. They answered emails at midnight. They joined meetings from their parents' homes.
Marchlewski and Fetchenhauer (2025) argue that this early productivity surge masked the withdrawal. The employee was producing output but not investing identity. They were doing the work but not building the relationships that sustain long term engagement.
This is the trap. If you only measure output, you miss the withdrawal. The employee looks fine. The numbers look fine. But underneath, the psychological contract is dissolving.
Why Indian Employees Cannot "Just Log Off"
One of the most striking arguments in the paper is about the cultural specificity of withdrawal. Western models of employee disengagement often assume that the worker has a clear boundary between work and life. Indian employees, particularly in urban centers, have historically had blurrier boundaries. Work was social. Colleagues were friends. The office was a second home.
When remote work removed the physical office, it did not create boundaries. It created emptiness.
The authors found that Indian employees who lived with extended family during the pandemic reported higher withdrawal than those living alone or with nuclear families. The reason is counterintuitive: having family around did not support work. It created competing demands for attention that the employee could not escape. The home became a workplace without the psychological separation of a commute.
What the Research Does Not Prove
Let me be clear about the limits. This review does not claim that remote work causes withdrawal in every Indian employee. Some workers thrived. Some found more autonomy, better focus, and deeper satisfaction.
The paper also does not prove that withdrawal is permanent. The studies it reviews were conducted during a specific historical moment. The pandemic was a trauma. The sudden shift to remote work was not chosen. It was imposed. We do not know yet whether voluntary remote work, chosen deliberately and designed well, produces the same effects.
And the paper does not tell us whether Indian companies can reverse the withdrawal. It identifies the problem. It does not prescribe the cure.
The Unanswered Question: Can Trust Be Rebuilt Remotely?
This is the question that keeps me up at night. Indian workplaces ran on trust built through presence. If presence is gone, can trust be rebuilt through other means?
Marchlewski and Fetchenhauer (2025) suggest that the answer might depend on how companies redesign their communication. They cite research showing that asynchronous communication, when done poorly, accelerates withdrawal. But when done well, it can actually deepen reflection and reduce the cognitive load of constant availability.
The authors do not offer a simple formula. But the implication is clear: the problem is not remote work. The problem is remote work that tries to replicate the office instead of reimagining it.
What This Actually Means
- ▸If you manage Indian remote workers, stop measuring only output. Measure engagement signals. Participation in meetings. Quality of questions asked. Speed of response to non urgent messages. These are not soft metrics. They are early warning systems.
- ▸If you are an Indian employee feeling withdrawal, name it. The paper suggests that one of the most damaging effects of withdrawal is that it feels like a personal failure. It is not. It is a structural response to a structural change.
- ▸If you are designing remote work policy, do not assume that more communication is better. The authors found that excessive notifications and constant Slack pings actually increased cognitive withdrawal. The brain learns to ignore noise.
- ▸If you are a woman in remote work, pay attention to the double shift. The paper suggests that withdrawal hits harder when caregiving and work share the same space and the same hours. Create physical boundaries if you can. But also recognize that the problem is not yours to solve alone.
- ▸If you are a company, invest in building trust through explicit recognition, not implicit presence. Indian workers were trained to read subtle signals. Remote work removes those signals. Replace them with clear, frequent, and specific feedback. Not performance reviews. Daily acknowledgment.
The withdrawal is real. It is measurable. And it is not going to fix itself.
The question is whether Indian companies will learn to see the employee who is present but gone, or whether they will keep mistaking output for engagement until the quiet quitting becomes a quiet exodus.
References
- [1]Thomas Marchlewski, Detlef Fetchenhauer (2025). A Glance on Changing Workplace Dynamics Post Covid-19 in India: A Review of Psychological Employee Withdrawal Behavior. Advances in consumer researchDOI· 1,232 citations
